REASON OF PROBLEM

 What is Problem

 When something does not happen according to our wishes then there is a problem. Problem occurs in two ways  firstly when some incidents does not happen according to our wish or choice then also there is a problem. Secondly when some person does not act according to our norms or wishes.

For incidents happening or going to happen in near future we generally predict results according to our sweet will, and not according to situations and that is the main reason of problem that is we don't understand the situation or don't accept the situation. We want something  beyond our capacity and norms or eligibility. We want something to happen as per our sweet will and not as per our work done or what should happen. It is important and interesting to note that we want some thing to happen against our beliefs and fears. Inside we know that it is not possible but still we want it to happen. we forget the main thing that FEARS are much more stronger than wishes.

Second type of problem happens in day to day dealing or daily routine. This type of problem happens when someone doesn't act according to our norms and we get irritated. Generally emotional type off problem occurs in close relations. We expect the persons closely related to us to act in a particular way ignoring the fact that he/she is a separate entity/personality and having his own way of thinking and reacting to situations. His analysis, perception, understanding, reaction and solution of the situation may be entirely different from us whether he is our son/daughter or our parent. his development of perception and beliefs may be some what or entirely different from us and so is reaction.

There may also be clash of interests and entirely different way of thinking. Actually problem is inside us, in our subconscious mind. WE are so tense and full of pressure that we are not able to bear a little adversity or even listen a different view. We are in ready to burst situation and waiting actually some thing odd to happen or someone to say a thing contrary, so that we may burst and release all the pressure.

It is this our mental state which is expecting all the the time some thing wrong to happen, responsible for all the problems. it is very right to say that SEEDS OF ALL PROBLEMS LIES INSIDE. OUTER FACTORS ONLY HELP IT TO GROW.