MISTAKES

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What is a mistake? Why  every person is afraid of mistake? Why some persons make mistakes regularly either same type or different? Are mistakes so harmful to be afraid of? Can mistakes be avoided completely, and should be tried to avoid completely?

These are some questions which one faces just from the childhood. It all starts with some norms as what to do, how to do set by some other persons either on their knowledge, experience or perception in general without considering sometimes our mental and physical state and capabilities. Some mistakes are really harmful and hazardous. They may be called as blunders as rash driving or driving without helmet, or taking decision in impulse, putting some harmful medicines or sharp objects with in the reach of children. Leaving electric appliances on, wasting material etc. These types of mistakes happen because we don't take them seriously not agree with and these mistakes become our habit. Such mistakes take place due to laziness, clumsiness and non bothering  and noncaring attitude and are out of preview of this article.

Mistakes in general are of two types

Declared by others as mistake 

2 accepted by you as mistake.

Here it is important to note that, only that mistakes are repeated which we don't agree or don't take seriously generally pointed out by parents, elders, and close relatives rather they are imposing and pressuring us to do some things in some peculiar manner. If we can't follow then they criticize and condemn us right from the beginning and shaking our confidence, thinking ability, and logic power. Sometime we become rude, rebel and revoltee. Try to communicate your point of view to others and yourself also. 

KEEP UNDUE CRITICISM AND CRITICISERS BOTH AT A BAY TO BE HAPPY, LOGICAL AND PROGRESSING. HAVE FAITH IN YOURSELF TO AVOID  YOUR PERSONALITY FROM SHATTERING AND MAKING MISTAKES REGULARILY.

Mistakes you do and agree are of three types

Habitual mistakes

Declared in future as mistakes done or judged by the end result that you were wrong,/ or made a mistake.

Mistakes due to ignorance

Habitual mistakes are difficult to improve and you need consultancy, guidance, love and support to improve.

If you are right today don't worry about future. It will be right tomorrow also, but if tomorrow proves that you were wrong even than don't worry as in today's situation you are right and you did your best.

Mistakes done due to ignorance are very precious if not repeated and are related to some thing new and not already proved. Majority of our mistakes comes from this class and are the best teachers. children learn by doing, trial and error; a fundamental technique to learn and invent new things.

if no mistakes to be done we won't do anything or atleast won't try anything new.

SO DON'T BE AFRAID OF MISTAKES. WELCOME THEM. EMBRACE THEM, LEARN FROM THEM, MAKE THEM FRIEND. THEY ARE YOUR BEST TEACHERS WHICH TEACH YOU ENTHUASISM, SPIRIT AND BOOST YOUR CONFIDENCE.

Mistakes can,t be avoided totally as TO ERR IS HUMAN and nothing new is born perfect 

at the first chance.

MISTAKES ARE BEAUTY OF LIFE.

RAKESH