Be The First To Kick Your Shortcomings
Everybody has some shortcomings and face problems in improving them. What to do about it he doesnot know. He want to improve it. So many times he faces problem due to these shortcomings. Whenever anybody critisizes his shortcomings he defends himself and in a way tries to justify him and his shortcomings in turn.
Actually whenever anybody critisize us or our shortcomings we defend it as it hurts our ego. Then how to improve these. Here are some points to note and understand.
1. Before anybody critisizes your shortcomings you be the first to condemn them. This will not hurt your ego and you will be able to improve them.
2. With every condemn these shortcomings /bad habits tend to become weaker. It is very hard to do a thing which we condemn ourself.
3. Never try to defend your shortcomings whenever anybody points them out as with every defense they tend to become stronger.
4. Make a practice to laugh at your bad practice and you will see that they are weakening and soon you will get rid off them.
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